Discussion: how to get out of the deadlock, to find favourite business and to begin new life

Published: 25.12.2017
how to get out of the deadlock, to find favourite business and to begin new life

For a start we will add fire to your life.

Even if everything finally got you, do not hurry to refuse the profession. Try to look at it a new, not blinkered view and to study as if she is not familiar to you at all.

What is the time to invest in such opening of the world? Month three, sometimes six. Even year. After that there are an outlook and the choice of interests.

6. Present that you can choose any mentor in your present profession. Who could become him? What would he teach you to?

It is good questions, but it is not necessary to dig in them to full clarity to begin to work. If you look for one "correct" option, count everything and endlessly estimate risks, your chances to move a little are small.

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You do not hurry to leave and make sharp movements. Believe, the first steps can be taken, without changing anything. You will understand when time comes. So far - you study and experiment in the safe territory.

2. Write down ten enthusiastic examples of professional success in your sphere (who / where works / what is engaged / than imposes).

Once a week plunge into some new subject - for a start it is possible even at random. For example, listen to a lecture on the Internet. Or training. Or open for yourself new field of knowledge. Some interesting professional. Let's call this option "sofa investigation".

- long to think, pass batteries of tests, to look for an answer and the only right answer to full clarity;

Do not postpone! Ourselves do not realize how our interests and high points lie in a long box and wait for approach of bright future.

Let's say all of you want to replace a field of activity, but do not represent where to move further because you have no alternative interests. What to do? Look round around! Now you have nothing to choose just because you do not know and what in general happens. Therefore you now - the researcher and the pioneer.

You are so engaged at unloved work what forgot about themselves? To you it is unclear where to go and what to want? Eyes do not burn and there are no forces something to change? The expert in the field of career strategy Elena Rezanova precisely knows what needs to be done! Her book "Nikogda-nibud" already much helped to break an impasse. And recently we had a continuation of this best-seller - a working notebook "Now" in which abrupt practical exercises are collected.

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The main thing - not to remain only in such option because most of all information is brought by "field investigation". It when you go down from a sofa and leave the house to participate in something interesting, it is slightly deeper to study some of the found subjects. To go to a seminar, either to pass an online course, or to register in studio if it is programs.

3. Write down all the working tasks: negotiations, meetings, reports, выступлени¤… And now make the alternative schedule of the working day: let in it there will be only those tasks from your list which are pleasant to you.

1. Write down 100 things which, in your opinion, should be made while you are alive.

2. Create the list of lives/roles which you could not embody so far, but very much would like - in some parallel Universe.

In practice I see two most frequent strategy of an exit from the deadlock and life "not on the place".

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After all these exercises you have a list of inspiring experiences which will improve your life. Plan how already now to include them in the everyday life.

Life is too short to spend it for unloved business. Start process of changes already today!

Your task - to fill that you missed, having narrowed the horizons to the "work - the house - a holiday" level. There are no times of preferences, it is possible to begin with any place. The main thing - to get out of a professional tunnel and to see the world around.

- to think out a detailed plan;

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- long to make up the mind to the first step.

And the second is connected with a way of life; let's call it quality of time. For example, to spend three hours on walk with children, to take the laptop and to work in the park / at the beach / in cafe, to go to a master class по… Emphasize such points.

& #8230; Do you Want to open yoga-retrit to Bali? You watch announcements of the real estate on the island and write inquiry.

- to get out of the deadlock, without burning bridges;

4. Now you see where in your current work there is an energy. Even if in the list only three points, are already good starting point. Think how to achieve that the most loading tasks appeared in your schedule more often or even became the main.

As a result - time begins to work for you and opportunities find you.

Only one step. It will be enough in order that the unreal dream became quite real part of your Universe.

In the last exercise there are two types of affairs. The first is connected with things, that is material aspect. For example, to spend evening on the yacht. Or to live in own country house. Or to offer one million to a dog shelter.

And what if business, interesting to you, is somewhere in the parallel Universe? Do not refuse the dream! Recalibrate your "impossible" in any real. Find a way to adjoin to it. Take the first step.

3. Think what experiences (which you miss so far) will make your life brighter.

Look at new trends, bright names, publications and events. Make new representation, try that it was impartial. If you came to this subject now what it would be interesting to you?

5. Find other format. How can you use the skills in unusual areas, out of an official working context? For example, to help the one who wants. To explain something, to consult, hold a seminar, to write article on popular or, on the contrary, an unknown subject.

As a result - you will waste time, but all the same nothing will go according to the plan.

Leave alone long-term goals, they not for the first stage. For it only actions, experiments, collection of information and opening are suitable for themselves the new world. It will put you in motion and will become the end of existence in a "postponed life" mode.

4. What would be your ideal day if you could do everything that want? Make the schedule on hours.

Look for answers in the course of the movement! At the deadlock such issues are not resolved.

On notebook materials "Now" and books "Nikogda-nibud"

For certain you ask yourself the following questions:

- to begin to change a situation at once;

- at the same time to remain in the same point;

Move smoothly and gradually. It is desirable without excess stress. For example, at first it is possible to read professional literature on the topic interesting you, then to choose useful master classes and seminars, then to register in some long-term program.

It is time to study the local map - at first in your professional sphere. It is necessary to consider your present direction and the current work from the different parties and to decide what prospects in it remained.

- from the first steps it is more interesting to make the life;

After investigation you for certain will have some ideas about future career. Now it is necessary to make the plan. Only in your case it will be special.

- to create for itself the field of the choice.

The book and a notebook supplement each other. In the book you will find a lot of useful theory and inspiring stories, and in a notebook - the concrete step-by-step instruction which will help to turn dreams into the purposes, to overcome inertia and to achieve the desirable.

1. Write down ten most important and interesting books about your professional sphere for the last year.

Attention: here the speech not about ideal day, it is not necessary to think out anything. We pack from this what you deal now with or what were engaged earlier in.

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